Moms (and Dads) on a Mis­sion – More from Hal­i­fax, Nova Scotia

A few weeks ago, Psych Mom, the mother of a sec­ond grader in Hal­i­fax, Nova Sco­tia, wrote about why she wasn’t going to make her daugh­ter do any upcom­ing cre­ative projects and how she was try­ing to reduce her daughter’s home­work load.

She pro­vides an update: “Update on the read­ing home­work my 7 year old was assigned a week before March Break. 4 days before the home­work was due, and it wasn’t done, I wrote a long let­ter to the teacher explain­ing that my daugh­ter was much more inter­ested in another book and that she was enthu­si­as­tic about answer­ing ques­tions I had designed (still try­ing to get to a lit­tle more depth out of the story). The teacher gave me feed­back today and was right on board with every­thing and very encour­ag­ing. It has worked out beau­ti­fully, and gives me con­fi­dence to keep speak­ing up.”

2 Comments on “Moms (and Dads) on a Mis­sion – More from Hal­i­fax, Nova Scotia”

  1. Sir Mildred Pierce says:

    As a stu­dent who came of age dur­ing the early 90’s I was never a very good stu­dent. I never rebelled or any­thing like that, I just found myself bored with the whole thing. I would often sim­ply not do my home­work, and I typ­i­cally just man­aged to scrape by. I felt there was always some­thing wrong with the process of school in gen­eral and “home­work” was one of the more time-wasting aspects of the whole process. At the time I didn’t have a voice about this, I wasn’t quite sure how I was able to express my dis­dain with every­thing because I sim­ply wasn’t allowed. The opin­ion of a minor is no opin­ion at all. We have no say in our upbring­ing, how could we? We don’t know anything.

    Today I’ve only recently had my first kid so I know I’ll be fac­ing many of the same chal­lenged my own par­ents faced when I was a child. Of course today is a dif­fer­ent time, liv­ing in the age of the inter­net. And yet I can see that “school­ing” has not changed much, it’s still stuck in the 20th century… — nay! the 19th century!

    I got in to an argu­ment with some­one recently about spelling and pen­man­ship, two things that I recall being “taught” quite heav­ily through­out my school days. Today I’m sure they are just as “impor­tant” lessons wast­ing the time of today’s youth. But is it necessary?

    Me per­son­ally, I’ve never had very good hand­writ­ing, Really, I don’t know many who do have very good hand­writ­ing. I don’t know any­one who writes in cur­sive, save for my mother. We’ve gone stead­fast in to the dig­i­tal age and for the most part for every 1 word I wrote down with my hand I type about 1000 words, and that’s no exag­ger­a­tion (If any­thing it might be a con­ser­v­a­tive esti­mate). With­out a doubt the skill of typ­ing is sim­ply more impor­tant these days than the skill of pen­man­ship. I have no doubt my own son will be a typ­ist before he is a hand-writer.

    I just asked my good-friend’s 10 year old daugh­ter, who I talk to on IM some­times (and I can tell she’s a fast typ­ist). I asked her if she ever took any lessons in school to learn how to type. She replied that she hadn’t. I asked her if she taken any lessons in how to write cur­sive. She replied that she had (and that it was stu­pid!). I hon­estly fig­ured that they would have dumped cur­sive by now, but nope! I’m a lit­tle glad that they hadn’t taught any lessons in typ­ing because it’s appar­ently some­thing that pretty any­one who’s inter­ested in it can self-teach. If they had taught it to her I won­der if she would have con­cluded that it too was stupid!

    Inter­est­ingly the *only* peo­ple I know who *do* have good hand­writ­ing (other than my mum.) Are my friends who hap­pen to be graf­fiti writ­ers and who develop hand­styles which are as dis­ci­plined, if not more, than clas­si­cal cur­sive styles. But, like typ­ing, this is a self-taught skill, I’m pretty sure there’s not a school in the coun­try that is teach­ing the eso­teric skill of the graf­fiti hand-style.

    So how about spelling? It too is a skill that has changed with the dig­i­tal age. This post has had sev­eral spelling errors in it, but the post as you are read­ing it does not. That I was able to cor­rect it had noth­ing to do with vocab­u­lary lessons I had in school. Of course you know how I cor­rected it. The ubiq­ui­tous red line under the word has with­out a doubt diluted the need to know how to spell every sin­gle word in the dic­tio­nary with­out fail. Now of course that might sound like a crutch, but in my opin­ion my spelling has got­ten bet­ter over the years because of it. As time goes on I mis­spell words less and less because every time I cor­rect a mis­spelling instantly I’m teach­ing myself about my short­com­ings in the skill. Typ­ing out a long post like this I can see also that those short­com­ings aren’t ran­dom, there are cer­tain kinds of words that I tend to spell more often than oth­ers. Being able to see that, IMO, is a much more use­ful lessong than all the ele­men­tary vocab tests put together.

    Livin­ing in the dig­i­tal age should be caus­ing some HUGE changes in our schools, on the level of change seen brought about in Europe with the intro­duc­tion of the print­ing press. But so far I can’t tell much dif­fer­ence from the schools of today from the schools I was stuck in in the 80’s and 90’s. It’s like we are send­ing our kids in to a time machine every day, and I fear for the dam­age we are caus­ing them.

    April 10th, 2009 at 12:53 am
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  2. Chitty Chitty Bang Bang says:

    I need to clear up the idea that “school­ing” is in a time warp. Cur­sive writ­ing was “dumped” a while ago in the Nova Sco­tia Eng­lish Lan­guage Arts Cur­ricu­lum –it is no longer an out­come, but still is often taught in ele­men­tary school because some teach­ers still feel it is impor­tant and often chil­dren are inter­ested in learn­ing this skill — it is at the dis­cre­tion of the teacher. Although key­board­ing skills is not specif­i­cally an out­come, tech­nol­ogy skills are. I agree that key­board­ing skills are more impor­tant in today’s tech­no­log­i­cal society.

    I have taught for over 13 years, teach­ing from grade 2 to adult learn­ers. I have taught many stu­dents who have dif­fi­cul­ties in lit­er­acy skills. Basic spelling skills are impor­tant  — but spelling instruc­tion needs to be related to the writ­ing of our stu­dents. There needs to be a “con­nec­tion” to real life writ­ing. Spellcheck is great, but if, and only if, the basics are there.

    For the record, I was an OK stu­dent, but not out­stand­ing while in pub­lic schools — I under­stand the frus­tra­tions you had while in school. Now that I am “on the other side”, I have seen Nova Sco­tia work extremely hard on improv­ing the edu­ca­tional pro­gram­ming they are offer­ing. School boards have been work­ing dili­gently to offer and man­date pro­fes­sional devel­op­ment for teach­ers, and in my 13 years, I have seen mas­sive atten­tion and improve­ment in the deliv­ery of edu­ca­tion in this province. I am proud of the progress the Depart­ment of Edu­ca­tion and the Chignecto Cen­tral Regional School Board has made. By the time SMPs child goes to school, they will have even made more progress — feel con­fi­dent that SMPs child will receive a bet­ter edu­ca­tion than we did. Another tip — stay involved — you will know your child bet­ter than his or her teach­ers and your sup­port will be appreciated!!!!

    May 6th, 2009 at 10:57 am
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