More from Dr. Daniel Gottlieb

Last week, I posted an arti­cle about how teenagers need more down­time, which was writ­ten by Dr. Daniel Got­tlieb, a clin­i­cal psy­chol­o­gist, fam­ily ther­a­pist, and author of, among other things, Let­ters to Sam: A Grandfather’s Lessons on Love, Loss, and the Gifts of Life. On Mon­day of this week, he wrote a follow-up piece, again orig­i­nally pub­lished in the Philadel­phia Inquirer.

Inside Out | Would less home­work lead to more learn­ing?
By Dan Gottlieb

My last col­umn was about too much home­work and what to do about it. I advised ado­les­cents to form com­mit­tees of stu­dents and par­ents to exam­ine home­work prac­tices at their schools. I sug­gested they con­sult sev­eral recent books that argue that exces­sive home­work does lit­tle good and a great deal of harm. I sup­ported the posi­tion taken by many edu­ca­tors that home­work should total no more than 10 min­utes a night mul­ti­plied by grade level (90 min­utes in ninth grade, for exam­ple). And I rec­om­mended that the newly formed com­mit­tees meet with admin­is­tra­tors and teach­ers to make their case.

Of course, I received dozens of e-mails. Most were from par­ents like Ginny DeLong, who said that when her daugh­ter was in 10th grade, her Eng­lish teacher would assign two hours of home­work a night just for her class (one of six). When she com­plained, it turned out the school did have a home­work pol­icy — but no one was aware of it.

Jim O’Brien wrote that his ado­les­cent daugh­ter is “buried under home­work; every night, every week­end and most hol­i­days.” I also heard from a friend whose child is in kinder­garten; he is already hear­ing about exces­sive home­work require­ments in first and sec­ond grade!

Edu­ca­tors responded as well. A mid­dle school math teacher from Glouces­ter County said she knew about the aca­d­e­mic research and had cut way back on her home­work assign­ments this year. The result? More stu­dents are com­plet­ing home­work and their over­all under­stand­ing of the sub­ject mat­ter has increased, she wrote, “because the stu­dents feel the work is more manageable.”

I heard from stu­dents like the high school senior who feels like he spends more time at school than at home, where he says he sleeps about six hours a night. He was not opti­mistic, and believes there is great resis­tance to change in edu­ca­tion. Per­haps voices such as his have not been heard. Sara Ben­nett, coau­thor of the recently released The Case Against Home­work, e-mailed me to under­score the impor­tance of includ­ing stu­dents in the dia­logue about homework.

Not every­body agreed. David Scol­nick, a father of three, thought I was all wrong. He sug­gested that much of the prob­lem is children’s atti­tudes and approaches to home­work, and that effi­cient chil­dren spend less time. Even three to four hours of home­work a night, he said, would leave a “cou­ple of hours for instant messaging.”

David did find com­mon ground with many par­ents and teach­ers who feel the cul­prit is over­sched­ul­ing. Cer­tainly that is the big­ger prob­lem. But a let­ter from a young woman in a Philadel­phia pri­vate school sug­gests we should be look­ing in another direction.

She began by say­ing she aver­ages four to five hours of home­work a night, and went on:

“I am con­tin­u­ally endur­ing stress and sleep­less nights, but I know it is for the good of my future. High schools are con­cerned about one thing: col­lege. And they feel it is their duty to help their stu­dents be #1. This leads to many of the sleep­less nights I have expe­ri­enced, and I see no end in sight. But I still believe that in the future this lifestyle may help me.”

The pres­sure to achieve is often about get­ting into the best col­lege. Once there, the pres­sure con­tin­ues. After grad­u­a­tion, it often gets even more intense. Why? It’s all in the pur­suit of secu­rity — and happiness!

The young lady in pri­vate school believes that endur­ing stress today will help her achieve secu­rity tomor­row. Yet we know that con­tin­ued expo­sure to stress will not boost resilience, and can actu­ally cre­ate depres­sion and com­pro­mise the immune sys­tem. We also know that, above the poverty level, there is no rela­tion­ship between money and happiness.

Sure, life’s chal­lenges are much big­ger than stress caused by too much home­work. But if ado­les­cents can be empow­ered to solve this one prob­lem, maybe that new­found strength will help them bet­ter care for them­selves and the larger world in the future. After all, isn’t that what we really want to get out of an education?

8 Comments on “More from Dr. Daniel Gottlieb”

  1. Cymry DeBoucher says:

    Thank you for your writ­ing on this topic. I teach at the high school level and the stress and results of stress. This is one of the biggest prob­lems in high school. I also deal with gifted under­achiev­ers and their two biggest prob­lems are home­work related shut-down and stress.

    January 8th, 2007 at 5:58 pm
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  2. Dina DiTullio says:

    I have two boys. We live in what I call an over­achiev­ing town. My 12 year old has endured so much home­work that I believe he may soon just shut down com­pletely. Some of my friends often have to guide their sons through much of their home­work in order for it to get done. I believe the boys are get­ting resent­ful. Why is it that I feel the very premise of this over­load­ing goes against every grain of my son’s bio­log­i­cal make-up? Why can’t we lis­ten to our sons? My son actu­ally told me that he does not like to read that much yet but he prob­a­bly will later on. Isn’t this say­ing that he would rather go out in the world and live his own adven­tures? I would like to address our pub­lic offi­cials because they have insisted on imple­ment­ing stan­dard­ized test­ing. Could there actu­ally be a cor­re­la­tion between stan­dard­ized test­ing poli­cies and the huge increase in stim­u­lant med­ica­tions pre­scribed to our boys? I have a friend who works in a phar­macy and she can­not believe the amount of med­ica­tion our kids are on. Why isn’t any­one look­ing into this? When I address stan­dard­ized test­ing poli­cies with the teach­ers and the amount of work thrown on our kids in order to per­form well on them, they tell me that they could lose their jobs if the kids don’t per­form well. Please reply with sug­ges­tions. Not all peo­ple agree with me and it is a touchy subject.

    February 5th, 2007 at 4:40 pm
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  3. courtney brinkerhoff says:

    I am work­ing on a story about excess home­work for Fox-29 here in Philadel­phia. I am look­ing for a fam­ily with high school stu­dents to talk about jug­gling the work load. If you know of any fam­i­lies who would agree to be inter­viewed on cam­era please let me know. They can email or call me! 215−982−5567.
    Tks,
    Court­ney Brinkerhoff

    March 12th, 2007 at 2:29 pm
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  4. Jonathan Bogna says:

    hi,im astu­dent at Byrd MS
    thanks for finaly mak­ing pub­lic an issue affect­ing the future of the world,
    i have tried to adress this prob­lem with my teach­ers before, but only one of them under­stood me, all the oth­ers laughed and asu­umed that i was just argu­ing to get out of doing home­work, but they are wrong, if it was true, then i would just not do it at all and not care what they have to say

    May 31st, 2007 at 5:13 pm
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  5. Tomas Walsh says:

    Hi, I am in year 10 (in aus­tralia, so i’m six­teen) at the moment. I believe that stu­dents are get­ting too much. Fur­ther­more stu­dents should not have to do assign­ments, instead we should be given exams. Exams are a lot eas­ier to study for.

    Good arti­cle Dr. Gottlieb

    Cheers

    June 6th, 2007 at 6:29 am
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  6. chy moklas says:

    I think the gov­er­ment will not help us in time of need!!!!!!!!!!

    November 7th, 2007 at 1:51 pm
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  7. Cole Flashner says:

    Kids get stressed out and need a break and down time. They should stop giv­ing out home­work before any­thing hap­pens from stress.

    January 11th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
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  8. Anonymous says:

    NNOOBBOODDYY CCAARREESS

    February 3rd, 2009 at 7:13 pm
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